Japanese Proverbs

Sayings of Japanese origin

An excellent compilation of beautifully expressed wise short Japanese proverbs & sayings from Japan that convey meaningful lessons drawn from life experiences.
  • Your years will still remain the same whether you laugh or cry.
  • You won't get sick if you have plenty of work.
  • You will never learn enough looking for only the good things in life; you will always be a pupil.
  • You warm up something for ten days and it goes cold in one.
  • You should climb Mount Fujiyama once in your life. Climb it twice and you're a fool.
  • You have to bow a few times before you can stand upright.
  • You don't have to die: heaven and hell are in this world too.
  • You can't straighten a snake by putting it in a bamboo cane.
  • You can't see the whole sky through a bamboo tube.
  • You can worship a sardine's head if you believe in it.
  • You can see heaven through the eye of the needle.
  • You can only endure the weaknesses of others by knowing your own.
  • Flattery is the best persuader.
  • Yesterday's flowers are today's dreams.
  • Years know more than books.
  • Women's quarrels cause the men's wars.
  • Without women there is no day and no night.
  • With such father there is such a child.


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May your reign
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Until the pebbles
Grow into boulders
Lush with moss


More Proverbs from Japan

  • With many little strokes a large tree is felled.
  • Wisdom is lost in a fat man's body.
  • Wisdom and virtue are like the two wheels of a cart.
  • Wine is water adulterated by foolish talk.
  • Who travels for love finds a thousand miles not longer than one.
  • Who cares if a crow is male or female?
  • Who can see in the future?
  • Where there is laughter happiness likes to be.
  • Where there is fish, there is water.
  • Where profit is, loss is hiding nearby.
  • When you're dying of thirst it's too late to dig a well.
  • When you talk about future happenings the devil starts to laugh.
  • When you reject gifts from heaven you will be rewarded in hell.
  • When you have children yourself, you begin to understand what you owe your parents.
  • When you have a good government the grass will grow over your troubles.
  • When you do something wholeheartedly, you are not in need of helpers.
  • When you are polite, the others think they are wearing flowers.
  • When you are looking upwards you see no frontiers.
  • When there are two fires in one room, only one will smoke.
  • When the moon is full, it begins to wane.
  • When the heat has passed, you forget about the shade of trees.
  • When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.
  • When ten thousand soldiers lie rotting, the general's reputation is enhanced.
  • When someone offends you, you haven't given him enough love.
  • When someone is really hungry, then there is no such thing as "bad food."
  • When a girl in the teahouse smiles at you, look the other way.
  • What is good is not necessarily beautiful.
  • Wealth gets in the way of wisdom.
  • We learn little from victory, but a great deal from defeat.
  • We learn by watching and listening.
  • We are no more than candles burning in the wind.
  • Water will always take the form of the vase it fills.
  • Walls have ears, paper sliding doors have eyes.
  • Walls have ears, bottles have mouths.
  • Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare.
  • Virtue is not knowing but doing.
  • Virtue carries an empty purse.
  • Victims of the same disease have a lot to talk about.
  • Unspoken words are the flowers of silence.
  • Unless you enter the tiger's den you cannot take the cubs.
  • Unhappiness can be a bridge to happiness.
  • Under a powerful general there are no feeble soldiers.
  • Two lovers in the rain have no need of an umbrella.
  • Truthful words are seldom pleasant.
  • Truth often comes out of a joke.
  • Transactions in Hell also depend upon money.
  • Too much politeness is impertinent.
  • Too much is worse than too little.
  • Too many hands will row the boat up a mountain.
  • Tomorrow's battle is won during today's practice.
  • To wait for luck is the same as waiting for death.
  • To the starving man the beauty of Fujiyama has no meaning.
  • To teach is to learn.
  • To receive a favor is to sell one's liberty.
  • To know and to act are one and the same.
  • To endure what is unendurable is true endurance.
  • To ask is a temporary shame; not to ask, an eternal one.
  • Time waits for no one.
  • Time spent laughing is time spent with the Gods.
  • Tigers die and leave their skins; people die and leave their names.
  • Though the blind man cannot see it, light remains light.
  • Thirty-six plans of how to win the battle are not so good as one plan to withdraw from the fight.
  • There is no such thing as dirty clothes when it is cold.
  • There is no such thing as bad food when you are really hungry.
  • There is no medicine for a fool.
  • There is no escape from heaven's web.
  • There is no coincidence in getting married.
  • There are old men of three years old and children of a hundred.
  • There are no national frontiers to learning.
  • The unscrupulous succeed every time.
  • The turtle underestimates the value of fast feet.
  • The tongue is more to be feared than the sword.
  • The taste of cold water after drinking, is a pleasure that the teetotaler will never know.
  • The taller the bamboo grows, the lower it bends.
  • The talented hawk hides its claws.
  • The stake that sticks out gets hammered down.
  • The spendthrift beats his money as if it were a carpet.
  • The speaker may well be a fool but the listener is wise.
  • The sparrow flying behind the hawk thinks the hawk is fleeing.
  • The smaller the margin, the greater the turnover.
  • The second word makes the fray.
  • The sack of longing has no bottom.
  • The reverse side also has a reverse side.
  • The prettiest of shoes makes a sorry hat.
  • The poor have no time to spare.
  • The plagiarist turns the body inside-out and changes the bones.
  • The person who admits ignorance shows it once; the one who tries to hide it shows it often.
  • The pensioner gets the wages of the death.
  • The path of duty lies in what is near at hand, but men look for it in what is remote.
  • The past is the future of the present.
  • The nail that sticks up gets hammered down.
  • The mouth of a man is a terrible opening.
  • The mouth is the door of evil.
  • The most beautiful flowers flourish in the shade.
  • The matchmaker always asks for too much money for his eight hundred lies.
  • The lotus flower blooms in the mud.
  • The lazy one stands up between one armchair and another.
  • The lawyer will extend the frontiers of a fight.
  • The inarticulate speak longest.
  • The human heart is neither of stone nor wood.
  • The hen tells the cock to crow.
  • The heaviest rains fall on the house that leaks most.
  • The heart is the most essential human quality.
  • The head of a monkey, the headdress of a prince.
  • The hard road turns the traveller into the same dust that he has to swallow.
  • The guest who seeks special attention muddies the host's tea.
  • The goodness of the father reaches higher than a mountain; that of the mother goes deeper than the ocean.
  • The gods just laugh when men pray to them for wealth.
  • The go-between wears out a thousand sandals.
  • The fruit of a tree falls to its root.
  • The frog in his pond sneers at the ocean.
  • The fortune-teller never knows his own.
  • The fast talker makes mistakes.
  • The eye that is still says more than a chattering mouth.
  • The dog that wags its tail won't be beaten.
  • The dog called "Sorrow," without eating, will be fat in every house.
  • The devil was good looking at eighteen.
  • The day you decide to do it is your lucky day.
  • The crow that mimics a cormorant gets drowned.
  • The consequence is the reward of the cause.
  • The child who died too soon was always beautiful and intelligent.
  • The character of a man lies not in his body but in his soul.
  • The caged bird dreams of clouds.
  • The acolyte at the gate reads scriptures he has never learned.
  • The absent get further off every day.
  • Ten men, ten minds.
  • Suspicion bears dark devils.
  • Stupidity begins with honesty.
  • Steal goods and you'll go to prison, steal lands and you are a king.
  • Spending it is like pouring water into sand.
  • Spend words as efficiently as money.
  • Sorrow is the seed of wealth.
  • Sometimes it takes only an hour to get a reputation that lasts for a thousand years.
  • Silent worms dig holes in the walls.
  • Silence makes irritation grow.
  • Serve your neighbors as you would be served yourself.
  • Seeing is poison for the eyes.
  • Say what you have to say, tomorrow.
  • Respect old people, and be gentle with children.
  • Quiet worms will bore a hole in the wall.
  • Put faith in your own abilities and not in the stars.
  • Pursue your duties and don't let them pursue you.
  • Poor men sleep the best.
  • Poor is the person who does not know when he has had enough.
  • He who talks to a silent listener will soon stand naked.
  • Poets know all about famous places without having been there.
  • Poetry moves heaven and earth.
  • Plan your life at New Year's eve, your day at dawn.
  • Pick your wife in the kitchen.
  • People who are asleep can't fall down.
  • Pears and women are the sweetest in the parts that are heaviest.
  • Over-intelligent people can't find friends.
  • Only when the coffin is closed will we see how long lasting is the name.
  • Only through suffering and sorrow do we acquire the wisdom not found in books.
  • Only he who knows his own weaknesses can endure those of others.
  • One who eats plain food is healthy.
  • One moment of intense happiness prolongs life by a thousand years.
  • One kind word can warm three winter months.
  • One joy can drive away a hundred sorrows.
  • One cannot scoop up the ocean with a sea shell.
  • One can stand still in a flowing stream, but not in a world of men.
  • Once dead the good and the bad are covered by the same moss.
  • Once conquered -- always a traitor.
  • Old people are everyone's treasures.
  • Old horses don't forget the way.
  • Old age cures us of our youth.
  • Nothing so visible than what you want to hide.
  • No road is too long in the company of a friend.
  • No one was ever hurt by laughter.
  • No one buys what he recommends himself.
  • Never watch a bonfire wearing a straw coat.
  • Never trust the advice of a man in difficulty.
  • Never rely on the glory of the morning or the smiles of your mother-in-law.
  • Never judge things of which you only know the shadow.
  • Never admit that there is a tomorrow.
  • My skirt with tears is always wet: I have forgotten to forget.
  • More festive than the feast itself is the day before.
  • Money has no ears but it hears; no legs but it walks.
  • Money grows on the tree of persistence.
  • Men and women are never placed too far apart to be near.
  • Many flowers, few fruits.
  • Man longs to see that which he is afraid to see.
  • Man is the instrument of illness.
  • Making money is like digging with a needle.
  • Luck is like having a rice dumpling fly into your mouth.
  • Love without friendship is like a shadow without the sun.
  • Look for a thrifty woman -- even though it may cost you a pair of shoes.
  • Life? That is a candle in the wind; frost upon a roof; the twitching of the fish in a pan.
  • Life is the source of all things.
  • Life is for one generation; a good name is forever.
  • Life is a long journey with a heavy bag on its back.
  • Let the past drift away with the water.
  • Lazy people have no spare time.
  • Large trees are envied by the wind.
  • Knowledge without wisdom is a load of books on the back of an ass.
  • It's better to not read at all than to believe everything you read.
  • The day you decide to do it is your lucky day.
  • It's better to lie a little than to be unhappy.
  • It's awful, I hate it" is hardly the other side of "That is beautiful and I loved it."
  • It is useful to first see the spark before the fire.
  • It is precisely the uncertainty of this world that makes life worth living.
  • It is no use cutting a stick when the fight is over.
  • It is easy to die -- the difficulty lies in living.
  • It is better to write down something once than read it ten times.
  • It is better to be the head of a chicken than the rear of an ox.
  • It is better to be ignorant than mistaken.
  • It is a beggar's pride that he is not a thief.
  • Invalids live the longest.
  • Into the house where joy lives, happiness will gladly come.
  • Instead of worrying, a strong man wears a smile.
  • Indifference is a generous kind of intolerance.
  • In the eyes of a lover a pock-marked face is one with pretty dimples.
  • In strategy, secrecy is highly regarded.
  • If you would shoot a general, shoot his horse first.
  • If you wish to learn the highest truth, begin with the alphabet.
  • If you wait long enough, it will be good weather.
  • If you turn into a dog, be sure to choose a rich family.
  • If you think about things too long, good thoughts will disappear.
  • If you run after two hares, you will catch neither.
  • If you respect others, others will respect you.
  • If you make love in the shade you get cold.
  • If you love your son, let him travel.
  • If you have no one else, then confer with your knee.
  • If you hate a man, let him live.
  • If you do not enter the tiger's cave, you will not catch its cub.
  • If you carry treasure, don't travel at night.
  • If you believe everything you read, you had better not read.
  • If you are travelling towards the East, you will inevitably move away from the West.
  • If you are looking for bad luck, you will soon find it.
  • If you are in a boat you are more afraid of fire than you are of water.
  • If you are going to sit on it for three years, the seat will certainly get warm.
  • If you are going to fall it's muddy everywhere.
  • If you are going out for a fight leave your best hat at home.
  • If you are eager to be in the shadow, leave your axe at home.
  • If there is a lid that doesn't fit, then there is a lid that does. To a person that does not wander, there is not enlightenment. Fall seven times, stand up eight.
  • If the skin of your belly is tight, the skin of your eyelids can sleep.
  • If the father is a frog, the son will be a frog.
  • If the blind leads the blind, they both fall into the ditch.
  • If the bird hadn't sung, it wouldn't have been shot.
  • If one man praises you, a thousand will repeat the praise.
  • If I peddle salt, it rains; if I peddle flour, the wind blows.
  • If her works for you, you work for him.
  • If every day was a sunny day, who would not wish for rain?
  • I have no sword; I make no mind my sword.
  • I have no set principles; I make adaptability to all circumstances my principle.
  • I have no friends; I make my mind my friend.
  • How good at combing is the bald priest.
  • Hidden virtues ring like a soft bell.
  • He who wears a smile instead of worrying is always the strongest.
  • He who wants what God wants of him will lead a free and happy life.
  • He who treads the path of love walks a thousand meters as if it were only one.
  • He who talks to a silent listener will soon stand naked.
  • He who smells does not know it himself.
  • He who sits in the shade won't take an axe to the tree.
  • He who makes the first bad move always loses the game.
  • He who knows not when he has enough, is poor.
  • He who is too servile ruins his back.
  • He who is desperate will squeeze oil out of a grain of sand.
  • He who is dependent on others must make friends with the dog.
  • He who is always right will never get round the world.
  • He, who insults another, digs two graves.
  • He who hunts two hares leaves one and loses the other.
  • He who has gold is served by the devil.
  • He, who buys useless things, later sells things that he needs.
  • He who burns his mouth on the soup will blow on a cold fish dish.
  • He who admits to his ignorance shows it once only; he who tries to hide it shows it frequently.
  • He is rich who knows when he has enough.
  • He is poor who does not feel content.
  • Happiness spring -- cleans the heart.
  • Happiness rarely keeps company with an empty stomach.
  • Growing rice gives you more than poetry will.
  • Grief itches but scratching it makes it worse.
  • Great villainy is often called loyalty.
  • Great trees are envied by the wind.
  • Great talents mature late.
  • Great deeds come from times of shortage.
  • Good things are never cheap.
  • Good medicine often has a bitter taste.
  • Good luck in business is like the froth on an ox's face.
  • God lives in an honest heart.
  • Getting money is like digging with a needle. Spending it is like water soaking into the sand.
  • Generals conquer, soldiers are killed.
  • Gain from your opponents without sacrificing your own strength.
  • Friends are known first in hardships.
  • Fortune will call at the smiling gate.
  • Forgiving the unrepentant is like drawing pictures on water.
  • Fools and knives require good handling.
  • Flattery is the best persuader of people.
  • First the man takes a drink; then the drink takes a drink; after that the drink takes the man.
  • Fear blows wind into your sails.
  • Fall seven times, stand up the eighth.
  • Faith can move mountains.
  • Every meeting is the beginning of a good-bye.
  • Every little yielding to anxiety is a step away from the natural heart of man.
  • Every fashion goes out of style.
  • Even when months and days are long, life is short.
  • Even thinking about sexual pleasure has its roots in greed.
  • Even the stone you trip on is part of your destiny.
  • Even in hell you meet relations.
  • Even if you hide yourself from the world, don't lose sight of your real nature.
  • Even a thief takes ten years to learn his trade.
  • Even a sheet of paper has two sides.
  • Even a fool knows the glow of gold.
  • Eggs and promises are easily broken.
  • Eat before falling in love.
  • Each day you can admire the moon, the snow and the flowers.
  • Dumplings are better than flowers.
  • Drink and sing: the dark night is ahead of us.
  • Don't tell others to do what you cannot do.
  • Don't take seriously the cat who mourns for a mouse.
  • Don't take a golden sword to cut a radish.
  • Don't scratch your shoe when it's your foot that itches.
  • Don't call in the doctor after the funeral.
  • Do not stay too long when the husband is not home.
  • Do not prophesy to the man who can see further than you can.
  • Disgrace is like the grain of a tree trunk -- time makes it bigger instead of erasing it.
  • Depend on your walking stick, not on other people.
  • Deceive the rich and powerful, if you will, but don't insult them.
  • Day has its eyes, night has its ears.
  • Cupidity has no peak.
  • Control your emotion or it will control you.
  • Control of mental conduct, not skill, is the sign of a matured samurai.
  • Consider the facts seven times before you suspect someone.
  • Conqueror the self and you will conquer the opponent.
  • Common sense is essential.
  • Cold tea and cold rice are tolerable; cold looks and cold words aren't.
  • Children grow up, with or without parents.
  • Character can be built on daily routine.
  • Books are preserved parts of minds.
  • Boasting begins where wisdom stops.
  • Better to write down something one time than to read something ten times.
  • Better to wash an old kimono than borrow a new one.
  • Better than a banquet somewhere else is a good cup of tea and a bowl of rice at home.
  • Better go without medicine than call in an unskilled physician.
  • Better be proficient in one art than a smattered in a thousand.
  • Beginning is easy -- to keep going is hard.
  • Because of their figure, vain women stay cold.
  • Bad and good are intertwined like rope.
  • At the bottom of the lighthouse it is dark.
  • As soon as stones can swim, leaves will sink.
  • As soon as a man leaves his house he has seven enemies.
  • Apply fitting ability in the fitting place.
  • Apple blossoms are beautiful, but rice dumplings are better.
  • Any ground is good enough to be buried in.
  • An idiot is eloquent when he stays silent.
  • An excess of courtesy is discourtesy.
  • An ant's nest could bring down a hill.
  • An accomplishment sticks to a person.
  • Alcohol reveals the true heart.
  • After victory, tighten your helmet chord.
  • After three years useless things are useful too.
  • After three years even a disaster can be good for something.
  • After the fight both parties give each other a good smack.
  • Affinity is a mysterious thing, but it is spicy!
  • Advertising is the mother of trade.
  • Adversity is the foundation of virtue.
  • Abuse often starts with praise.
  • Absent friends get further away every day.
  • A woman has many mouths.
  • A wild goose may be worth a hundred pieces of gold, but you first have to spend three pieces of gold to buy an arrow.
  • A three inch tongue -- the iron bulwark of politics.
  • A statement once let loose cannot be caught by four horses.
  • A single arrow is easily broken, but not ten in a bundle.
  • A silent man is the best one to listen to.
  • A round egg can be made square according to how you cut it; words would be harsh according to how you speak them.
  • A proposal without patience breaks its own heart.
  • A powerful man has big ears.
  • A pig used to dirt turns its nose up at rice.
  • A monkey makes fun of the red behinds of his fellow monkeys.
  • A mended lid to a cracked pan.
  • A man's heart changes as often as does the autumn sky.
  • A man who always wears his best kimono has no Sunday clothes.
  • A man of straw is still a man.
  • A man in love mistakes a pimple for a dimple.
  • A man can endure the worst pain -- of others.
  • A lie has no legs but scandalous wings.
  • A journey of a thousand miles starts with one step.
  • A joke is often the hole through which truth whistles.
  • A good religion does not need miracles.
  • A good husband is healthy and absent.
  • A good cat does not need a collar of gold.
  • A gilt-edged visiting card often hides an ugly face.
  • A foolish bird fouls her own nest.
  • A fog cannot be dispelled by a fan.
  • A fish gets bigger when it gets away.
  • A fallen blossom never returns to the branch.
  • A dying man discovers the honesty with which he was born.
  • A dead cherry tree will not blossom.
  • A crying child thrives.
  • A country can be conquered from the back of a horse but may not be ruled in the same manner.
  • A centipede, though dead, will not fall.
  • A borrowed cat catches no mice.
  • A boat that is not tied up will drift along with the stream.
  • A beautiful woman is like an axe in one's life.
  • A bath refreshes the body, tea refreshes the mind.